“You could get a horse and keep it at my house,” The Jess told me as she daydreamed about where she eventually wanted to buy a house.
The funny thing is, I’m not really interested in getting a horse.
I started riding as soon as I could sit up. My mom would put me in front of her and hold me on while she rode her horse. I continued to ride until I moved over here when I was 18. I was an active member of a horse 4-H club for 15 years, and I competed in horse shows from when I was about 1 (if lead-line and stick horses count as competing!!), until I was 17. Along with Taekwondo, It was my thing.
Some days when school was out for the summer, I’d put my morgan/welsh pony called Snowman in the arena so I could go out multiple times per day when I got bored and hop on him for a quick ride, no saddle, no bridle, not even a halter. I would just swing myself up, and control him with weight shifts, tongue clicks and voice commands, and he would go wherever I told him, at whatever speed I wanted him to.
I would give him carrots, kiss him on the nose, pat his neck and scratch him between his ears. I knew him and he knew me. We got along, and we had a bond.
I remember when we very first got him. I was only about 9 years old. My mom bought (or was given, I can’t remember which) him while I was staying with my cousin in Minnesota for most of the summer. My flight got in fairly late for a 9 year old (it was my first time flying by myself), but when we got home, my mom took me outside and turned on the arena lights. I whinged about wanting to go to bed until I saw this obese little pony lying down in the middle of the arena.
I was so excited. And cranky that mom kept him a secret the whole time I was gone (she didn’t want to spoil my trip). I loved him straight away. It took a long time, but we got him in shape and eventually, he lost his excess weight.
I loved riding horses.
It’s not so much that I loved riding horses though, it’s that I loved riding my horse (pony, actually if you’re being technical). I went to training days at the fairgrounds each year, and pretty much every time, the trainers and judges told me that I would do so much better if I wasn’t riding a pony. They said that if I wanted to win, I should get a horse.
But I never did. Not because I didn’t want to win, I am one of the most competitive people that I know, believe you me, I wanted to win, but I didn’t want to win on any horse, I wanted to win on my pony. It was me and Snowman or nothing. I would rather lose with Snowman than win with anyone else.
So no, I don’t want to get a horse, because it wouldn’t be the same; it wouldn’t be Snowman.
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